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Friday, November 23, 2007

Jealousy is no different like a poison apple!

Dont you think Jealousy is the most poisonous behaviour ever? If you carefully examine it, you will find that Girls or ladies are the creatures that are easily getting jealous... They compared their products thy were using, branded or fashionable clothes they were wearing, their popularity, the money that they have until even comparing their boyfriends! Sometimes is abit pity to the guys... they have been their victims! Until they also have to dress well when they were with their girlfriends and her pals...




After jealousy... then comes backstabbing! Do you agree with me? People who always backstab about others is because they were jealous. Oh come on, I dont really understand about them... They always enjoying backstabbing about others but do they know actually backstabbing will only spoil their image... No matter how fashionable , how beautiful or how talented you are, if you always talk bad about people, does it makes you feel more better than them... no!

Take this test to see whether you have jealousy problem: (copy and paste it into your URL browser)

http://www.expertrating.com/quizzes/Jealousy-Test.asp

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So do you have jealousy problem? Here is some tips for you:
(This advises have been taken from a site offering some steps to heal your jealousy problem)

Step 1: Isolate the Cause of the Jealousy
You may think that the jealousy is caused by your partner looking sexy ... or by a certain person at work. But that isn't the real cause. That is just a symptom. Fill out the Jealousy Cause Worksheet (http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/jealousy/step1.asp) to fully understand just what the REAL cause is, so that you can then work on finding a resolution.

Step 2: Focus on Eliminating One Jealousy Trigger
You need to realize that the jealousy is able to be overcome. So start out with a Jealousy Focus Activity ( http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/jealousy/step2.asp) where you work through one of the main triggers for your jealousy. This will help you see that the jealousy CAN be overcome.

Step 3: Build Up your Self Esteem
To generalize, just about every jealous situation is caused by the jealous person feeling that they are not good enough for their partner. They feel inadequate ... they feel that "of course" their partner would leave them for someone else, if given half a chance. So one key thing to work on is to Build Up your Self Esteem (http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/jealousy/step3.asp)

Hope you will feel better :)

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